Is there something a woman can wear jewelry or otherwise that will clearly identify her to other lesbians that she is a lesbian too and available?
I'm going through a divorce so not quite ready to wear a rainbow flag and not totally out yet but wondered is there something I could do now that would signal to other lesbian women
that my little heart beats for women and women only? This would open the door for friendships to happen an romance to bloom down the road, hopefully! Thanks so much, Dawna Rose

Rather than risk offending people or worse inviting ridicule, you could try using the internet. Type : lesbian contacts and your country into a search engine as a way into the "lesbian community" till you learn more.

But be careful online as people do not always tell the truth in such situations (ie: 25 could equal 35), people use photos belonging to better looking people, or you could even get a nut. Like all relationships it isn't going to be perfect first time so I think you have to take it slowly and cautiously.

Note : I know nothing about you so this is general. I know some women after an affair/marriage to a wrong man who has given them a very bad time will sometimes seek their own sex as they feel they have had enough of men. This also happens with men too.