Insyght
4th August 2005 - 03:51 PM
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Is it sexist for a man to be attracted to a woman? Is it sexist for a man to look at a woman, see her beauty, the wonder of her design (evolution if you are in that camp) and marvel? See the glistening eyes, the becoming lips, the tuck of the cheek as her smile curls slowly up her face? to follow that smile past the shadows of light on her baby soft skin, before enbracing her hair as flowing crown of beauty?
Is it sexist for a man to be attracted to every woman? Is it sexist for a man to look at a woman, and only see her beauty--and if she has none, walk away--the wonder of her design, and nothing else? If he's unable to see anything beyond what's in front of him--her intelligence, since of humor, and overall personality? To see all women as objects of passion and nothing more? Is this sexist?
555J,
You are positively burning with anger, arn't you? Why?
To answer you question above. First, every woman has beauty. I don't go by all that magazine crap. When you look into a womans eyes, you see beauty. I don't care who it is.
As regards to being short sighted and only seeing physical beauty. You are missing the point. It follows friendship (which I tried to explain, but you shot down with some very strange reasoning - which further confuses me as to where you are coming from).
You get to know someone, her sense of humor, mind, spirit, what she thinks, feels, longs for, you grow to love her. This is why the statement I made above is true regarding physical beauty. When you love inside, the whole person becomes beautiful.
You hook me up with a 6 foot, long legged blond, who looks like she fell out of baywatch, who has a personnality of the grim reaper and she will have no beauty to me. Rather, she will be repulsive. Hook me up with a 5ft 2inch brunet, with freckles, large face, short legs and a bit on the chubby side, YET she is the sweetest flower inside, who blossoms when she is in my presence, as if I am the rays of the sun shining upon her... I will love that woman and she will be the most beautiful flower in the whole world in my eyes.
Have I stated clearly enough, what I am talking about it? I don't think I can explain it any more clearly here, other than breaking into poetry or something. Geeze, it's like relationship-101. Frankly it's getting frustrating, because I am being accused of being sexist, when you have no idea who I am, or what my standards are - to the contrary, you are being consumed with your desire to make women so close to men, that you try to hide the fact that woman are woman and they are desired as such.
How come Samantha did not find me sexist, but you did?
You confuse me sometimes mate. I'm killing this off now. No further replies in this thread. No point.
Regards to all.