Other than everything you just wrote.
We've got thick continents and a thin ocean crust (and Hawaii smack in the middle of the Pacific) and vulcanism on the other side of the Earth (the mid-Atlantic ridge).
And they've got a gravitational anomaly, thick and thin crust, but no ocean.
Looks to me like Mars hit Earth, left us the moon close-in, and scattered debris which *might've* formed a moon for Mars if Mars had an ocean or some other tidal forces to exert on the asteroid belt to collect the farther-out debris into one solid object.
Heat makes steam, but steam cools even in space and returns to the body with the deepest gravitational well (that'd be Earth), where it makes weather which makes everything almost round and smooth.
Just my two cents, I'm not trying to get into a catfight over this.
Aside from the fact that there is no evidence of Mars ever having hit earth.
Look.
"Colliding with mars sized body"
Is not the same thing as "Colliding with mars"
Nothing I have said is evidence for Mars colliding with earth, in fact much of what I said is evidence against anything colliding with earth.
The early solar system was a very busy place, there were more, and bigger objects in the early solar system then there are now (or so theory predicts anyway).
From an astrophysical perspective, there's no evidence to suggest that Mars was ever anywhere near earth, there's nothing anomalous about its orbit, or rotational speeds, in fact the only thing potentially anomalous about mars is its size.
The pacific ocean is irrelevant, very little of it is older then 125 ma (in fact I believe the oldest it gets is 180ma) but the giant impactor theory predicts the impact occured 4 billion years ago.
Hawaii is irrelevant, Hawaii is a hotspot, they happen, there's some debate as to precisely how they happen, but they do happen. Hawaii is not the only hotspot in the world, the chain of islands and seamounts generated by this hotspot as the pacific plate drifts over it include the emperor seamounts, and extend all the way to the Kamchatka peninsula. the Hawaii hotspot is not special in any way, except perhaps its activity, but other hotspots include:
- Afar hotspot
- Amsterdam hotspot
- Anahim hotspot
- Ascension hotspot
- Azores hotspot
- Balleny hotspot
- Bermuda hotspot
- Bouvet hotspot
- Bowie hotspot
- Cameroon hotspot
- Canary hotspot
- Cape Verde hotspot
- Caroline hotspot
- Cobb hotspot
- Comoros hotspot
- Crozet hotspot
- Darfur hotspot
- Discovery hotspot
- East Australia hotspot
- Easter hotspot
- Eifel hotspot
- Fernando hotspot
- Galápagos hotspot
- Gough hotspot
- Guadalupe hotspot
- Hawaii hotspot
- Heard hotspot
- Hoggar hotspot
- Iceland hotspot
- Jan Mayen hotspot
- Juan Fernandez hotspot
- Kerguelen hotspot
- Lord Howe hotspot
- Louisville hotspot
- Macdonald hotspot
- Madeira hotspot
- Marion hotspot
- Marquesas hotspot
- Meteor hotspot
- New England hotspot
- Pitcairn hotspot
- Raton hotspot
- Réunion hotspot
- St. Helena hotspot
- St. Paul hotspot
- Samoa hotspot
- San Felix hotspot
- Shona hotspot
- Society hotspot (Tahiti hotspot)
- Socorro hotspot
- Tasmanid hotspot
- Tibesti hotspot
- Trindade hotspot
- Tristan hotspot
- Vema hotspot
- Yellowstone hotspot
While it may be true that there is a theory that suggests that the 11 antipodal pairs of hotspots might have been caused by the impacts of large (>10km) bolides, the hotspot antipodal to Hawaii is is under lake victoria, and is not associated with the mid atlantic spreading ridge.
The mid atlantic ridge is irrelevant, it began fissuring in the Triassic (200-250 mya), which, once again is significantly younger then the impact thought to have caused the moon, and possibly older then the the hawaii hotspot. It should also be noted that the Amazon, Mississippi, and niger rivers are part of the complex that would form the mid atlantic ridge.
Again, the available evidence does not support your theory.