tikay
1st October 2008 - 02:03 PM
Hello clark, elden and BIG...
You might be beyond any real assist big Fairy....anyone with such magalo tendencies is far to high up, for the lowly pion to be able to reach. Hope it isn't too terribly lonely up there for you.
Self development, self actualization is a valuable idea to entertain, and the resulting goals that follow any course of study or contemplation, can be extremely rewarding, and an end worth working toward. Meditation is certainly a way to increase serenity, balance and overall...lends more personal wealth in the form of health, and well being. There are many other ways to advance, personally as well...exercise can be a very important factor, to evolving as much as one can, in a lifetime. I like to meditate while exercising, myself...and at other times as well, such as washing dishes or cleaning house.
It is good to be quiet, and focus on the task at hard, not allowing things to distract while you are meditating. I turn off the phone, and concentrate on the one thing alone...it is very soothing and makes the work an easy thing to complete. If I were still in Hawaii I would probably pick coffee and macadamia nuts again...those are great times to meditate, out in nature...doing something easy and repetitive...it is so easy to turn off the thoughts, and just BE, then.
Meditation for so many seems to mean sitting in lotus or semi~lotus and trying to still the mind, but that has never worked out for me, I found a way that did work, as described above. Here is a link that someone in here turned me onto a while back...I will go check the links that you have provided here, elden, as well.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-actualiz...f-actualizationTry to ignore BIGFAIRY if you can, he is sort of like herpes...he may be gone for a while, but he'll be back to try and burn and irritate you, all too soon.

t.k.