My goodness. Well, relatively detailed, if not quite entirely accurate.
Specifically, gravity is curvature of spacetime. According to General Relativity (I hope I can abbreviate that to GR- and that you will all know what SR means if I do), "space" and "time" are dimensions- and there are four dimensions in our space, three of which we perceive as one kind of thing and the fourth as another, which actually are the same kind of thing, although arranged somewhat differently in their geometric relationship. In other words, it is more accurate to speak of "spacetime" than it is to speak separately of "space" and "time."
Time is not
intrinsically different from space; it is merely
arranged differently with respect to the three "space" dimensions than they are to one another. Let me explain how.
The three spatial dimensions are
spherically symmetric. That means that
both directions in all three dimensions, and therefore any combination of them,
are geometrically the same, and that you can use
spherical geometric functions to do
spherical trigonometry in them and describe positions, and directions, and distances, and so forth in space. Time, however, while it is
geometrically the same in both directions, is not
spherically symmetric with respect to space. In fact, it is
hyperbolically symmetric with respect to the three spatial dimensions. That means that we have to use
hyperbolic geometry,
hyperbolic geometric functions, and
hyperbolic trigonometry to describe positions, distances, directions, and so forth in spacetime; and hyperbolic functions are essentially different from spherical ones in certain ways. When you do math with spherical geometry, you pick a direction and call it x, and pick one of the two directions of x and call it positive; and everything comes out exactly the same whatever direction you pick as x. But when you do math with hyperbolic geometry, once you have chosen a direction for your dimension, and picked one of the two directions on that dimension to be positive, you have introduced an asymmetry into your mathematical construct. It is in fact impossible to define the meaning of "the opposite direction" using hyperbolic functions. In spherical math, this is 180 degrees; but in hyperbolic math, it is infinity degrees.
Now, the reason that hyperbolic geometry, and hyperbolic symmetry, are called that, is because from the point of view of one of the dimensions, the other dimensions are all hyperbolic; whereas from the view of the other dimensions, that same single dimension forms an axis of symmetry of those hyperbolae. If you have ever seen a hyperbola, you will know that it is curved. For this reason, you will hear physicists say, "space is curved." This type of curvature, however, is not gravity; it is merely the point of view that is enforced by choosing a special direction in time and calling it "the future," and calling its opposite "the past." Once you have made such a choice, which is called "fixing a gauge," you can define rotations that will allow you to transform space and time into one another, just as you can define rotations that will turn the space dimensions into one another; however, the only directions that will be at defined angles that are described by real numbers will be at angles that point toward the future. You will not be able to define angles that point toward the past in real terms; they will be complex numbers, which contain a real and an imaginary part added together. We know what it means to give a real number as the distance to an object; but we do not know what it means to give a complex or an imaginary number for a distance. As far as we can tell, it has no physical meaning.
Now, you will immediately think, "well, that means that there is an inherent special direction in time in the universe." Not so! Because, you see, you can reverse the past and the future, and do all the calculations for the past, and the distances in spacetime that you get from events in the future to events in the past will be real numbers; it will be the distances from events in the past to events in the future that will become imaginary! Furthermore, the distances you get between events if you choose the future as your positive direction from events in the past to events in the future, will be the same distance you get from those same events in the future to those same events in the past, if you choose the past as your positive direction. The laws of physics at this level appear to be symmetric with respect to time; it is merely that one must fix a gauge from which to view it, in order to get numbers describing distances, and once one has done so, only in certain directions are the numbers real.
Another point of all of this is that time does not "pass;" after all, we do not speak of any of the other dimensions "passing." We instead speak of objects, and ourselves, "moving." So do we move in time; or at least that is how we perceive matters. Actually, from our point of view, if we define our speed in time as a second per second, the math comes out right if we translate a second in time into the distance that light moves in a second in space. In other words, we perceive ourselves (and all matter that shares our velocity in space, that is all matter that we perceive as having velocity zero with respect to us) as moving at the speed of light through time. And we describe the direction we perceive ourselves as moving in as the "future."
If you think carefully about this, you will see that energy is that which moves in space at the speed of light, and matter is that which moves in time at the speed of light. There is no reason for why light moves in space at the speed of light; it is a characteristic of the universe that it does so. Similarly, there is no reason for why matter moves in time at the speed of light; it is a characteristic of the universe that it does so. These are assumptions under relativity, not conclusions.
So whenever we perceive an object as moving relative to us, what we see is that it is rotated in spacetime, such that its "direction to the future" isn't in the same direction as ours is; in fact, it points in a direction that is partly time, and partly space. Whatever movement it makes in space, that movement is taken away from it in time; but the addition of a distance in space to a distance in time is not straightforward, because the spatial dimensions are hyperbolically symmetric with respect to time, rather than spherically symmetric as they are with respect to one another.
We therefore perceive the object as moving at "less than a second per second" in time, and as having some non-zero velocity in space. In addition, the object is rotated, although we cannot see that rotation; it is in a plane we cannot see because it is defined partly by the time axis, as opposed to the three planes we
can see, which correspond to the x-y, x-z, and y-z planes. In other words, it is rotated in the x-t, y-t, or z-t planes, or some combination of them. I explained this in a recent post on another thread in terms of a spaceship changing its direction in space, and "moving more slowly in x." It's worth looking up.
Now, all of this is merely the GR description of spacetime, and of motion in spacetime; we have not yet touched gravity. In fact, since I have not discussed acceleration, this so far is merely the SR special case of GR. (Not that you can't represent acceleration in SR; however, it is difficult, and deals with "non-inertial frames," for which the math is very, very complex; in GR, this math becomes much simpler, but there are conceptual complications).
Gravity is represented as curvature, not of space, but of spacetime. Now, if spacetime is curved, then an object's velocity toward the future is only completely motion in time for one particular point in spacetime; at all other points in spacetime, from that point's point of view, its velocity in time is partly in time, and partly in space. What this means is that the object spontaneously moves, and the reason it moves is because the curving of spacetime makes its intrinsic velocity in time turn into velocity in space. It is also capable of curving the path of light, in the same way.
And that is what gravity is, according to our best theory of it, GR.
That is a very elegant description.