OK, I understand this and that of course just raised another question.
Just as an example I took the Uranium-235 but I'm sure it's (other than time) the same for all matter. In 0.7 billion years Uranium-235 will decay into Lead-207.
They hang around in the Zircon crystal.
U-235 decays into Pb-207 through the
Actinium Series and U-238 decays into Pb-206 through the
Radium SeriesFor the most part, the Zircon can be considered a closed system. The decay products careen away from the site of the parent nucleus, leaving fission tracks, and creating micro fissures in the crystal.
Sometimes, if there is sufficient damage to the crystal, and the crystal is open, and looses lead to the environment, there's a process by which that can be corrected for.
Given the different decay rates of U-235 and U-238, the lead is produced at different rates, and will therefore be lost at different rates, resulting in different ages. But, if you sample many crystals,, you generally find that you have a range of ages, and two ages can be determined, the first is the age of the sample, and the second is the age at which the system started behaving in an open manner, instead of a closed one (although some people dispute that).
But, essentially, the decay products hang around in the crystal causing (further) damage to the cyrstal structure as they decay further.